What are the views of muslim men dating outside their religion?

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ladys asked:


Dating a muslim man and would like to know how much respect he has for me, a non muslim women.

12 comments:

  1. thegreatwann, 4. September 2008, 22:28

    muslims men need to convert them before getting married for sure.

    I am not a muslim anymore, but my brother married a chinese girl who was a buddhist and then converted to become muslim..

    Dumb move on her part..but she doesnt practice islam anyways

     
  2. MadHatter, 7. September 2008, 9:04

    Its really depends on the person. You can’t expect to put it primarily on religion. Use culture and previous history as a guide.

     
  3. TIGER, 9. September 2008, 7:30

    A true Muslim is he, who does not give any importance to what his religion teaches. Of all the Muslims, I have found that whoever gives more importance to Koran becomes a psychic. But others, who lead a normal life are truly good people.

     
  4. voguegirl992, 10. September 2008, 1:04

    depends on the person and the family, but if he is a devout islamic , his family will probably want you to convert to islam if you and him consider marriage. he is a MAN not an alien, it depends on who he is. mohammad the prophet had a few wives of non islamic roots and so it is accepted, it mainly depends on where he is from, how serious you and him are and his family.
    if he is a good man, by any standards he will treat you well.
    good luck

     
  5. ?, 10. September 2008, 3:24

    One of my co-workers is muslim and he got merried before to a non-muslim. Its not about the religion, its about the kind of person they are no mather where they come from or what religion they are.

     
  6. keyjona, 13. September 2008, 1:55

    How much respect do you have for your self? It’s not always about religion.

     
  7. Cindy, 13. September 2008, 19:31

    That’s depended on your behavior and caste at sometime

     
  8. Debra Erics, 14. September 2008, 13:05

    Most just want ***.
    Has he taken you to his mosque? Met any of his friends? Do you eat pork? Have a glass of wine every now and then? Enjoy concerts?
    You’ll have to give more info, but I think you get my point. Let me ask you this. Have you seen many Muslim men married to non Muslims?

     
  9. Aycora B, 17. September 2008, 2:37

    Muslim men are not allowed to “date”. They are allowed to marry Muslims, Christians and Jews, but no one else. They are allowed to marry up to 4 wives. Muslim women are not allowed to marry non-Muslim men and they are not allowed more than 1 husband. Muslims have these “rules” to spread Islam and have more followers/believers.

     
  10. shahinsaifullah2006, 19. September 2008, 17:38

    Meeting a woman whether muslim or non muslim is not becoming of muslim as such forbidden.It is matter of respect but rather a disrespect that he considers you an object satifying his mean object. Woman are to be respected and kept away from lustful eyes.However even if he desire to to marry a woman, he can have a look at him but do not be permitted to meet in exclusion.

     
  11. youpostnow, 21. September 2008, 13:26

    He has zero respect for you. You are dirty to him.

     
  12. dudeman15, 24. September 2008, 12:08

    he probably respects as much as any muslim girl, trust me

    my cousin, no actaully two of my cousins have gotten MARRIED to non muslim girls(and neither of them have converted) and they have very healthy relationships